"Restore unto me the joy thy salvation;" Psalm 51:12a (KJV) If one is to be properly restored, one of the things they have to do is they have to be honest enough to say I can't let my pride get in the way. I have to recognize that I have to apologize and I also have to recognize that can't point the fingers at someone else. True restoration comes when you can be honest enough to admit to say I was wrong, the blame is on me.